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Gaydar? How do I determine who is a lesbian without telling the world my feelings?

Is gaydar real? Can lesbians really talk about other lesbians and if that’s the case is that something that is available in time or what? Ive only gone on one date with a woman so I dont really have any experience, but I cant select lesbians!

i want to move on more dates, but for all i do know each woman I pass is gay and that i wouldnt know. How do I tell who’s a lesbian? And does gaydar are available in time or is it something you’re born with?

9 Responses to “Gaydar? How do I determine who is a lesbian without telling the world my feelings?”

  1. Joshua K says:

    Everybody is supplied with gaydar, just that some peoples don't work…similar to mine. While you get a gut feeling when them it’s a hint hint form of deal but its not always right :(

  2. *VIBE* says:

    i dont think that ppl actual have a gaydar. they jst are brilliant at lukn at people and seeing their true colors. u shud try hanging out in communites or areas that feeds ur interest. it could actually help

  3. FaceLess says:

    yes there may be this sort of thing… for me anyway…
    i feel it comes from experience…
    i confer with lots of people and get to grasp types of people, so i will kinda tell who can be gay or lesbian. bi's are the toughest to inform :(

    but i'd suggest to become friends with more people, and dont just stay within your usual 'group' the more people you already know, the more you’ll eventually know and tell

  4. Motorcycle Rider says:

    i feel that a gaydar is a mental type of with the ability to judge someones sexuality on looks, personality and behaviour. It’s not useful for fully determining someones sexuality, so we can know evidently, they either wish to let you know, otherwise you should ask them yourself.

  5. flamebluefoxx says:

    trust your gut after which act like ur requesting 'a chum' that works

  6. Maggie says:

    I are inclined to fall at the side that thinks you were born with gaydar. I've always been ready to tell…even the hard to read ones. It's like a sense within the pit of your stomach that’s like "omg, she's family!" LOL i feel there's characteristics one can search for too…..comparable to short fingernails, shorter hair (sometimes), speech patterns (MOST lesbians, i've noticed, have speech patterns the same as guys…kinda hard to picture, i do know .) Good luck. It gets better.

  7. One <3 Adriana says:

    The single ones whos gaydar works are the homosexuals! But then after all i’m always wrong :( lol

  8. shitass says:

    Trust me baby GAYDAR is real. Its like a natural gut feeling. i’m a lesbian and that i can have a look at any women masculine or feminine and tell whether or not they are gay, bi, transexual or so on. Should you can't choose a lesbian its maybe since you aren't one so therefore you don't know what to appear for. Or even since you arent openly gay. Listed here are a couple of tips: eye contact is usually the major, just try and make eye contact with any woman walking down the road. If she is a lesbian trust me she is going to make eye contact with you and before you recognize it you guys might be having eye sex LOL. Also decide on your gut feeling. Ff you gaydar is telling you she is a lesbian what are the probabilities that she isn't? just attempt to spark up a general conversation if the conversation doesn't go anywhere and also you obviously feel rejected then likelihood is she probably isn't a lesbian. What’s the worst which could happen? Rejection? Trust I live within the south and if i will be able to break out with asking a girl if she is a lesbian you may also. And last but not least attempt to exit to bars or clubs. It doesnt need to be a lesbian club or bar but that may be a good way to get to grasp people, after which the folks they will know. Believe it or not I actually have straight friends whom i’ve got met years ago which have introduced me to my girlfriend. Youre not born with a gaydar its like a natural feeling that includes time.

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  9. Daisy D says:

    It's all about eye contact. With some practice, you'll be capable to make eye contact with a lady and notice what sort of eye contact she gives back and you may read her like that.

    In talking, a lil flirting in your part is sweet, and notice how she responds. If she flirts back, maybe she is a lesbian in addition.

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